Don't be shy! Approach the guy!!

Okay so we've all been in a situation where you're at an event, you see someone you're interested in but don't want to approach them.

Why do we become so nervous?? They're human just like us right? Well, I will try to give some tips to make the approach easier.

I first want to mention that YOU WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT THE CUTIE WILL SAY UNLESS YOU INTERACT WITH THEM!!

Don't miss out on the love of your life just because you're shy. They could walk out the door and then you will never know if that person was meant for you.

Step 1. Make subtle eye contact with a slight smile (This lets him know that you're friendly and easy to talk to).

Step 2. SAY HELLO for goodness sake

Step 3. Strike up small convo .. Not cheesy convo.. Something you see that you can relate to OR a simple question perhaps.

Step 4. If you're way to shy to do any of the steps above, write a simple note such as this "Hello, I'm Mary. You caught my attention and I was hoping we could grab a cup of coffee. Call me if you want to chat.. Have a great day." Either you can hand the note to him yourself and walk away, OR you can hand it to a friend to slip to him.

Step 4 may seem a little "Old School" but it works!!!

Step 5. If he calls, great! You're awesome! If he doesn't call, you're STILL awesome! This just brings you another step closer in being confident.

Here's a whole different approach, if you feel more confident... Bump into them!! (I was told this works) lol.. "I noticed you and felt like if I didn't say anything, I'd miss out".

Share YOUR stories on how you met a person that you were shy about. I would love to hear the different approaches!!